It was my 24th b'day and after a long time I was at home. It was raining outside and sitting at the window of my room, suddenly I had a thought about the gift bestowed by god.
Yeah… it’s my life.
Perhaps quarter life crisis was storming my head. I think life comes with lots of event and all of those are distributed normally throughout making it similar to Gaussian curve. My love for statistics is making me to put this comparison. So similar to this curve life is likely to have a peak or turning point but is it centered??
Some people face this point in their childhood and some in their retirement age. It is different for everyone e.g. someone may find it in love, job or marriage while for others this point could be at extreme low like loved one’s death, break up or divorce etc.. If we have this point at extreme high we view this world full of life and with a positive perspective otherwise our life is overshadowed by gloom. Does it mean that those who faced this turning point at extreme low can’t experience the joy or those who got it at extreme high will never face the darkness in their heart??? Hell NO!!!
Only one turning point can shape our entire world and give us a dark perspective of life. After that we may experience joy at times but those moments are outnumbered by our negative perspective. In this situation everybody knows that they need to improve their lives and gain a positive outlook and for that they have to deal with that turning point. They need to accept or overcome it and the hard part is implementing and executing all this. Sometime this negative perspective is reciprocated by some consecutive happy moments but it is not typical in every case. To overcome all this some take charge of their lives fully, some leave it over god and others succumb to it by drowning themselves in alcohol. I would advocate the first ones. This is our life and we must have hold over it otherwise what’s the purpose of life?
By asking this question I found a much bigger question in front of me: “does life have any purpose or meaning?” some people believes that this life is created by god and he is the only one who can take care of it so what the hell they are doing under this sun? Let the almighty work for them!!!
I believe if we own our life we can make it meaningful in any way we desire. I can use my LAN wire to hang my damp clothing or mobile as a paperweight. Because there need not be a fundamental connection between the meaning you assign and the object you assign to it. So let yourself choose the turning point of your life and obtain a new perspective.
Be Happy AnywaY :-)
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Live life with wonder
live life with wonder reminds us to see,
notice, invite, and experience our lives with
an essence of wonder.
as if with wide eyes and open hearts like children.
we can often find ourselves 'shackled' by our opinions,
judgements and preferences, leaving no space for wonder.
as we each allow and intend experiences of wonder
to increase, we will be welcoming much more
joy, bliss and enlightening moments in to our lives.
allowing wonder to be a tangible presence in your life will also
enhance a deeper connection with all that is.
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